
The Power of Mindset Allowed Tom Brady to a Become a Man
Apr 18, 2020Tom Brady talked to Howard Stern for over two hours last week.
Iâm have a SiriusXM account so dove right in during my home workouts.
Brady's the man⊠and hereâs why.
If youâre a regular reader, then you know Iâm big on process⊠big on having a plan⊠big on having self discipline to do consistent work.
The first half of the interview was pure gold if youâre into that.
Stern and Brady have similar stories.
Howard talked about how he was a horrible disc jockey early on⊠he improved through thousands of hours of practice.
Brady didnât start on his freshman football team, and he stresses that he was a late-bloomer.
He wasnât the best player on his team in high school (in football or baseball.)
He commented that everyone develops at a different rate, and itâs up to the individual to decide what theyâre willing to become.
Brady admits that one of his strengths is his internal motivation⊠his fire always burns.
Zero of Bradyâs high school teammates wouldâve guessed his success in college.
Zero of his college teammates wouldâve predicted his NFL success.
Zero of his early professional teammates wouldâve predicted his later career success.
Brady never had a back-up plan.
Neither did Stern.
They both admit its naiveté⊠but if you donât have a back-up plan thereâs no safety net.
(I hear this with many successful people I know.)
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Brady On Competition
Brady learned a lot about competition in college (he played at Michigan.)
He committed there in the spring of his senior year of high school.
Fast forward to his freshman fall and both the head coach coach and recruiting coordinator were gone.
Brady was at a new school where the new staff didnât recruit him.
He felt vulnerable.
He was a long way from his California home...
It was a very pivotal moment in his life cuz he began to understand a secret power.
The power of mindset.
He made the decision to not complain.
He learned how to mentally reframe difficult scenarios to focus on the positives.
Early in his Michigan career, he would only get 3 reps in practice.
Brady learned to treat those 3 reps like gold.
Overtime, he would get 5⊠then 10.
He evolved from a kid to a man.
Fast forward to Super Bowl LI, and a 28-3 deficit in the 4th quarter against Atlanta.
It would've been easy to give up.
But Brady used his Jedi mindset to imagine the story of what a magnificent comeback it would be.
They came back and won⊠the greatest Super Bowl comeback ever.
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Brady On Paryting
Stern asked if Brady partied in high school, or if he always had the mindset of his body being a temple.
It was a little of both.
He wanted to fit in (what high school kid doesnât?)
Brady and his Dad are VERY tight.
So when Brady did go out in high school, he had a sense of guilt.
Heâd go out less and less as high school proceeded.
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Brady on Leadership
Brady loves team sports.
The camaraderie is unmatched.
The give and take in the locker room.
His leadership style is to find connections with his teammates.
Players (especially professional athletes) want to succeed.
So if a guy makes a poor play, Brady doesnât fault âem.
However, thatâs different than trusting a teammate.
Brady wonât throw him the ball if that trust isn't there.
If a guyâs being a jerk, then Brady will express his concerns off to the side.
Connecting with people is Bradyâs goal.
That builds relationships.
In turn, that creates great communication.
Teams that communicate well are successful.
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Brady on Belichick and Leaving New England
Brady looks at this part of his career as a new stage.
He doesnât care about legacy.
He just LOVES playing football...
...and he believes he can still contribute.
I love that!
He talked about Belichick and how they both respect each other a TON.
He says there are a lotta wrong assumptions about their relationship.
He doesnât fault Belichick for his future quarterback planning.
Brady admits that heâs in unchartered territory.
Heâs 43 and still playing football.
Brady believes it was the perfect ending to a 20 year run in New England.
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Brady's Tips for the Lockdown
If youâre reading this at publication then this will be valuable.
The country on lockdown is an example of an âuncontrollableâ.
Brady explained itâs important to change your mindset.
Use this time to get some exercise.
Get more rest.
Eat healthy foods.
Call your loved ones and friends.
Sitting on the couch all day and watching the doom & gloom news is a death trap.
Persevere.
Hope this helps.